Memorial Day Remembrance

Memorial Day brings floods of memories. My father was part of the air group that served in Germany during the Berlin Airlift. The thoughts were to take families along so that some form of “normalcy” would be present. We lived there for 3 years, my sister was even born there. At least we were trying to show the German people that we were trying to help them, we were not afraid since our families were there with us and friendships were forged.

Growing up with the “military” mindset, kept me very aware of how things were.   When I joined the band in junior high school, the Memorial Day parades were the icing on the cake of being in the “Band”.  In high school the same held true.  We marched to honor those who served and serve, it was also considered our “final exam”.

When I was in high school, the Vietnam conflict was going full speed ahead. By the time I started college, it had escalated to the point that I was losing friends to the conflict. I was in a constant state of concern for those serving overseas. When one of my best friends died over there and being a History/Political Science major in college, my father and I chose not to discuss the “rightness” of the conflict. I stood by constitutional law, since there was no declaration from congress, it was a conflict. He stood for it as a war. Regardless of terminology, the sacrifice of our military was at the forefront.  I always stood for all those who serve or served. Without them, we would have nothing. From our earliest days, our military has stood for our way of life.

Today as I look at another Memorial Day approaching, I continue to remember those who serve and served so that we can be free. Today it includes veterans that are: my son, a nephew, a son-in-law, a spouse of a niece, a niece.  That special task assumed by our citizen soldiers continues  and so should our support for all of them, always.  May we always give respect to those who give us their ultimate respect by safeguarding our freedoms.

Thank you for all you have done and do!

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OMG! I’m offically old!

I’ve reached a milestone that I thought was still a long way off. My Medicare card as arrived. I am officially “old”. Of course, not many friends believe I am as old as the calendar says I am. That’s a good thing.

Glad to still have my health. My family keeps me on my toes. My dog keeps me moving. Love the sunshine and looking forward to summer. There is nothing I can do to stop the wheels of time, but I can enjoy each day to its fullest.

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Social Security, Medicare and Nuts!

Today I have the opportunity to become part of the FEDERAL system. I am required by my retirement system to be enrolled in Medicare by the first of the month I reach the magical age of 65. So, off I went to the social security office. What an adventure to say the least!

Being that the “local” office was at least a 40 minute drive away, I googled a map and took off. Of course, the roads had such small signs I did in fact get turned around and sort of lost once. Arriving at the office, after having to turn around and ask directions because the sign for the office is BEHIND a lovely shrub and cannot be seen easily, I parked and signed in. Trying to be efficient, I made sure I had my driver’s license ID, my social security card, my banking information and my husband’s death certificate. Try to be prepared.

Once I was able to talk to the first person, I was told that in order to process my application, they would need **TA_DA** the original marriage certificate. Now you understand my name is on the death certificate as spouse, but nooooooooooooo, need original certificate. We cannot process application without that document. So after asking if there was an easier way to return back to my home city, I was off again. Also,  given the assurance that there were in fact “survivor’s” benefits available, it seemed worth my time and energy to make the additional round trip. Sounded like I was in for some  good news.

Returned with proper paperwork and once again waited my “turn”.  When I finally got to see someone, the first thing I was informed of was that it was a crime to give false information and that at the end of the interview I would be required to affirm that the information I have given was indeed the truth and nothing but the truth.

Having gotten through this part, I started the procedure to apply for widow’s benefits.  Yes, I was the widow and yes there were benefits attached.  BUT, since I receive a retirement income from a public retirement system that did not pay into social security, there was an offset penalty that **TA_DA** wipes out the benefit I would receive.  Even though my spouse worked and contributed, there is a federal offset that says NOT for you.  You worked your career with children, in education and therefore you don’t qualify for the additional benefit.  Now, remember, my spouse is gone, my gross income has been cut by 2/3rds, but tough luck for you.  When I questioned where the money he contributed would go, I was told it just went into the “system”.  I guess this is how they fund all those folks that qualify even though they NEVER had anyone who contributed at all.  I absolutely find this a terrible situation for anyone caught in this mess.  Believe me, there will be other letters written to people at the federal level and my representatives to try to right this particular wrong.  (Maybe I should just run for a seat in Congress and then I won’t have to worry because my retirement will increase dramatically after a few short terms in Washington.)

The good news that came out of it is two-fold. Because of my husbands contribution to the system, I will get Medicare Part A at no charge (could have been huge) and I will be able to participate in  Part B just like everyone else for almost $100 a month, billed quarterly.  (I’m billed because I don’t have a benefit check that the amount  can be deducted from, even though I’m the widow of a beneficiary.)  That’s ok,  at least I have met the requirement of my retirement system by signing up for Medicare and will have medical benefits.  Fortunately, I can keep my prescription plan with my retirement system so at least I get to keep something that I am used to using.

I wish I had been aware sooner.  I’d have definitely taken on this issue.  We treat our older citizens as second class citizens when it comes to medical care, some don’t even get the benefits that non-citizen residents qualify for.  How nuts is that?!?  I have every belief that my letters will be given stock answers (We’re trying.  Can’t get it out of committee.  It’s a system breaker.)  It will make me feel better if I try at least.

That’s part of what I’ve learned.  Part of my “Thoughts As I Age”.

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May

It is May already. I am so thankful that I was kept so busy with the April Photo Challenge. It really made me stop and think about a lot of diverse topics. I look forward to the next Photo Challenge.

Besides the Photo Challenge, I prepared stuff to move, packed and moved residences. Of course, I then had to UNpack and distribute all my “stuff” in the new place. I am done with all the big items and most of the small. Now I just need to decide where to put the photographs I love and decide on curtains. Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Thanks to all who came to visit during the Challenge, thanks to the other participants who helped encourage me to keep shooting, and thanks to those who are now following this blog. Makes me feel good that someone else likes what I might have to say.

More later!

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April Photo Challenge #29 One the ground

This fence “on the ground” isn’t doing much keeping anything in or out!


Challenge participants:
Georgia
Ree
Lisa
and me

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April Photo Challenge #28 Deadly sins

Will have to go with gluttony for this one.

My favorite kind of pizza – mushroom and green pepper and lots of cheese.

Midnight food buffet on the cruise. Most too pretty to even think about eating.

Challenge participants:
Georgia
Ree
Lisa
and me

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April Photo Challenge #27 Curves

Not at all original, but definitely whimsical!
The aunt in a curvy chair (on cruise)

A curvy pool surrounded by a set of chairs set to follow the curve of the pool.

Challenge participants:
Georgia
Ree
Lisa
and me

Posted in April Photo Challenge, Calm, Curves, Nostalgic, Peace | 6 Comments